on subtlety and militancy:
I’ve had times in my life where I was dismissed for my lack of subtlety—for calling too much attention to myself. For being too big. I talked too much, had too many ideas, was prone to long periods of hyper-focus on writing about talking dogs, and could not contain the constant movement in my body. I was always on. The light in my eye was incongruous with so many adults’ sense of what light my black body should emit. They seemed threatened, and I could tell, but I didn’t care. Somehow I knew it was their problem and not mine.… read more